I admit, sometimes Im not in a good mood when i really dont tend to listen. Sad to say this, but honestly, even my friends, a really really good friends, I, sometimes get bored, it really depends on my mood. Nothing could change it. Sad but true guys =( sorry for that anyway.
Those 5 steps which are discussed to us a while ago, receiving is the first step where I could reflect myself that when I want to listen to a person, I really listen to them focusing on them only. As if we are the only people there, we dont even care who's passing by us or looking at us.
Next is understanding, wherein, I do understand them word by word if Im that interested enough to listen. Just like what I said, it really depends on my mood.. hehehe xD
Third one is remembering. For instance, Im telling a story to my friend, then I would remember till the deepest past of my life just to give the information I want to share it to her, I would express it by actions to get my point completely.
Then, evaluating, here, I honestly judge people why they are telling that kind of story, is he/she willing enough to share it with me. Because of these judgments, many things come to my mind. Well, true xD
Lastly, responding, Just like what ma'am said, back-channeling cues is one of my ways how to react or respond to them. xD
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This is so hard to pick from those eight kinds of listening. huhuhu =( eventhough Im not really that kind of person. Ma'am do I still have to choose? Umm... I think I'll group myself to reader/writer.
Guys, this is a NOTE, I am not that TOTALLY kind of person huh. =D
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Oh! same here!hehe.. I also did not really find real me as a listner from the list, but I chose me as a writer/reader hehe.. U can see the reason why in my blog..:D
Lol. I chose reader/writer (which is not particularly stated in my blog, how odd.) but in my opinion... well. That's actually it. Lmao.
Nice. xD we're the same, babe. <3
same here vya.....^^
that's okay. the list is quite limited anyway :)
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