Friday, September 28, 2007

"kalye" words xD

DEHINDS/DEHINS - it is a word which is used by a Filipino which is obviously "binaliktad" word to give us a meaning of "hindi" or not. Like when you ask a person if she does the given work and she answers you "dehins pa", it means "hindi pa" or not yet. It is usually used by a Filipino because dehinds is a filipino term and mostly teenagers use this word especially to those teens who are able to go out or hang-out with friends or let me say, to those teens who are always with their peers. Just like what I have encountered with my guy friend. I asked him a certain question and I got shocked and was innocent that time when he answered me, "dehins pa. later nalang ". And I replied back to him asking what does it mean. Then I found myself laughing out loud on my cellphone when i got what he meant by that.


TOM JONES - also a Filipino term. And obviously it is also a kalye word that mostly Filipino teens use. It gives us the meaning of "gutom" wherein "tom" is conjuct with "jones". The word "tom jones" is simply a name of a person. Whether you dont know the meaning of "tom jones" as of the uses of mostly teens now, you will have an idea of what "tom jones" means. You will know when you ask someone who knows better the kalye woed for it. Especially when they have already told you before, for instance the "dehins", you will now get to know what they mean for that because same way for "dehins", they interchange the word. To make a new word which is a "kalye word"

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

how am I as a listener? xD

I admit, sometimes Im not in a good mood when i really dont tend to listen. Sad to say this, but honestly, even my friends, a really really good friends, I, sometimes get bored, it really depends on my mood. Nothing could change it. Sad but true guys =( sorry for that anyway.

Those 5 steps which are discussed to us a while ago, receiving is the first step where I could reflect myself that when I want to listen to a person, I really listen to them focusing on them only. As if we are the only people there, we dont even care who's passing by us or looking at us.

Next is understanding, wherein, I do understand them word by word if Im that interested enough to listen. Just like what I said, it really depends on my mood.. hehehe xD

Third one is remembering. For instance, Im telling a story to my friend, then I would remember till the deepest past of my life just to give the information I want to share it to her, I would express it by actions to get my point completely.

Then, evaluating, here, I honestly judge people why they are telling that kind of story, is he/she willing enough to share it with me. Because of these judgments, many things come to my mind. Well, true xD

Lastly, responding, Just like what ma'am said, back-channeling cues is one of my ways how to react or respond to them. xD


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This is so hard to pick from those eight kinds of listening. huhuhu =( eventhough Im not really that kind of person. Ma'am do I still have to choose? Umm... I think I'll group myself to reader/writer.


Guys, this is a NOTE, I am not that TOTALLY kind of person huh. =D